Let’s face it: There are just some things men and women see differently.Men, for the most part, simply don’t get shoe shopping, chick flicks or the nuances between emerald and kelly green.
Women, on the other hand, tend to cringe at the Three Stooges, car chases and endless discussions about the art of outdoor grilling.
Similar chasms exist when it comes to losing weight, probably because a couple of popular perceptions loom large: Women have to starve to whittle down one dress size. Guys cut back on beer, head to the gym a couple of times and lose 10 pounds right away.
There are good reasons why these stereotypes remain, says Natalie Johnson, a certified fitness trainer from Apollo Beach. Women have to deal with the pounds childbirth brings. Men do get beer bellies. Gals focus on counting calories. Guys tend to lose by sweating off the pounds.
“Men want to be trim and strong, and women want to be toned and small,” says Johnson, who focuses on weight loss as owner of the Fit Chick Enterprises and Stroller Strides fitness programs.
The attitude, self-image and emotional baggage brought to weight loss plays a big part for both sexes, says Mario Rodriguez, a Tampa psychologist who works with the Healthy Weight Clinic at the University of South Florida.
“Women may be more motivated by societal pressure and expectations … but it’s there for men too,” he says.
And there’s a lot more to understanding weight loss than gender, says Denise Edwards, the healthy weight clinic’s director. Our nation’s chronic obesity problem and obsession with quick-hit diets pervades all genders, cultures and age groups, she says.
“I would not use (gender) as a universal excuse,” Edwards says.
To put potential gender-based rationalizations to rest, we asked fitness, medical and psychological weight loss experts to explain some basic truths about how men and women gain and lose weight.
Body chemistry
Conventional Wisdom: Men burn calories faster.
Sorry ladies, this one’s true.
Guys: Higher testosterone levels help burn more calories, even when resting. It also helps build muscle more easily. A study in the American Journal of Psychology reported that women burn 16 percent fewer calories than men.
Gals: Estrogen levels help with child-bearing, not dieting. Also, aging translates into slower metabolism for men and women, but it is a bigger deterrent to weight loss for women, Edwards says.
The shapes
Conventional Wisdom: Guys lose weight easier because of where they gain.
Truth is both genders struggle with where body fat accumulates.
Guys: Fat builds up around the belly, so men tend to be shaped more like apples, says the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases. Also, overweight men who gain weight in the neck run the risk of sleep apnea, a dangerous sleeping condition that can trigger more problems.
Gals: Pear is the fruit shape women most often encounter, as fat collects in the hips and buttocks. Post-menopause, women start gaining in the mid-section too.
Incentives
Conventional Wisdom: Men and women alike just want to look sexy.
Nope. The aches and pains of extra weight, and the desire to know grandchildren, gets a lot of people to start a diet.
Guys: A big gut may look bad, but it’s not an enormous motivator for men. Improving health is more likely to be an incentive for both men and women, especially as they get older, Rodriquez says.
Gals: Women want to see the scale move, Johnson says. Strength conditioning is secondary.
Mental motivation
Conventional Wisdom: Guys don’t even need to try to lose weight.
False. Everybody needs something to keep them going.
Guys: Competitiveness is more innate for men, making it a dieting advantage, Rodriguez says. They also tend to be focused once you give them a goal and a path to follow, Johnson says.
Gals: Women’s strengths come from the fact they are more attentive to their weight and can more easily make a connection between food and emotions, says Karen Miller-Kovach, chief scientific officer for Weight Watchers International. That may make diet management easier for them.
Emotional hurdles
Conventional Wisdom: Women use food as an emotional crutch.
Reality is that every individual — male and female — faces emotional and physical problems differently.
Guys: Personal baggage and trauma can be a reason for extreme weight for men and women, Rodriguez says. Men also are not immune to image problems.
Gals: Stress is often overlooked as a reason why both women and men fail to reach a healthy weight, Edwards says. New mothers, for example, are exhausted and under extraordinary pressure, making their metabolism slow and cravings for high-calorie carbs high.
Food choices
Conventional Wisdom: Men can lose weight and eat as much as they want.
That’s a myth: Men and women need to watch portion size and food choices carefully.
Guys: Men focus so much on protein to build muscle, they forget the importance of fruits and vegetables, Edwards says. Johnson adds that many men forget to consider the calories a beer or cocktails can add to the waist line.
Gals: Regardless of gender, calories amount are less critical than food types and portion control. Women are more likely to select salads and other veggies but forget they need protein each time they eat.
Hitting the gym
Conventional Wisdom: Men and women can do any kind of workout and lose weight.
That’s not necessarily true. Cardio workouts may burn calories, but they might not tone or build lean muscle mass.
Guys: Exercise comes more naturally for men, but that’s not an excuse for poor eating habits. Edwards says. And their workouts need to target strength training of individual muscle groups for the mental and physical boost they need, Johnson says.
Gals: Exercises that burn the maximum amount of calories is critical, Johnson says. Interval cardio training that utilizes multiple muscle groups at once is the way to go.
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